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If you’re unclear where the pattern is, a short conversation can bring clarity.
We'll identify your #1 pattern, discuss whether you're ready to change it, and map out next steps, whether that's BEAM or something else. No pressure.

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Find out your emotional availability score, identify your attachment style, and discover the #1 pattern blocking you from healthy love.
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Personalized insights based on your answers

Get Unstuck Fast:
Perfect if you need immediate clarity on ONE specific challenge and a roadmap to move forward.
What we'll cover:
Your #1 dating/relationship pattern and where it came from
Why you keep choosing the same type of person (even when they look different)
Your attachment style and how it's sabotaging your relationships
3 immediate action steps to start dating differently
Personalized tools you can use right away
Ideal for:
"I keep attracting emotionally unavailable people and don't know why"
"I can't tell if I'm being too rigid or ignoring red flags"
"I struggle to express my needs without conflict or shutting down"
"I need help deciding if I should stay or leave this situationship"

$599 USD investment
Includes personalized assessment + follow-up email with tools
The full 6-month transformation, with the accountability and affordability of group coaching. Group coaching + self-study + community
What's included:
12 live group coaching calls (90 minutes each, twice monthly) - 6 months, ~3-4 hours/week commitment
Private BEAM Community access for support between calls
All recorded modules & frameworks on the 5 E's, attachment styles, Non-Violent Communication
Workbooks & assessments: Emotional Intelligence, Emotional Maturity, Dating Plan, Values Clarification
Accountability partners matched within the cohort
Lifetime access to all recordings and future course updates
The BEAM curriculum:
Months 1-2: CLARITY - Understand your patterns, triggers, and the 5 E's of emotional availability
Months 3-4: COMPATIBILITY - Build your actual standards (not just avoid red flags)
Months 3-4: COMMUNICATION - Master Non-Violent Communication and healthy conflict
Months 5-6: PRACTICE DATING - Apply everything in real-time with group support
Ideal for:
You learn well in groups and want community support
You're ready to commit to 6 months of transformation
You want the full BEAM method at an accessible price point
You're tired of doing this alone

$3,000 USD investment (payment plans available)
Lifetime access to all materials + future cohort recordings
Everything in BEAM Group plus personalized 1-on-1 attention, real-time dating coaching, and direct access to me. 1-on-1 coaching + group coaching + self-study + community
Everything in BEAM Starter, PLUS:
12 private 1-on-1 sessions with Dagmar (60 minutes each, twice monthly)
Real-time dating coaching - Debrief your dates, analyze patterns as they emerge, adjust your approach immediately
Personalized pattern analysis - Deep dive into YOUR specific attachment wounds and triggers
Voxer access for quick questions between sessions (M-F, 24-hour response time)
Priority scheduling and faster onboarding
The difference:
Group coaching is powerful for learning from others' patterns
1-on-1 coaching accelerates YOUR specific transformation
You get both: community support + personalized attention
Ideal for:
You want faster, more personalized results
You're actively dating and need real-time support
You have complex patterns (trauma history, multiple failed relationships)
You want direct access to Dagmar between sessions

$6,000 USD investment (payment plans available)
Lifetime access + priority support throughout program
Questionnaire
Tell me about yourself, and I'll email you a personalized plan within 48 hours. It's 100% confidential and only takes 90 seconds.
Your Relationship Patterns
You're not sure coaching is right for you
You want to meet me before investing
You need help identifying your specific pattern
You have ONE specific challenge you need to solve
You want immediate clarity and tools
You're not ready to commit to 6 months yet
You want transformation with others walking the same path
You want community that holds you accountable and celebrates your progress.
You want high-level coaching in a more accessible format.
You're ready to fully commit to transformation
You want community support and accountability
You prefer the affordability of group coaching
Still confused? Book the free call. We'll figure it out together.
Therapy helps you understand your patterns. Coaching helps you break them. We're action-focused, not just insight-focused.
If you're in a committed relationship, BEAM isn't right for you (yet). If you're casually dating or in a situationship you're evaluating, absolutely.
All calls are recorded. Many clients watch recordings due to work schedules. You won't miss anything.
Yes! 3-month and 6-month payment plans available for BEAM programs. Ask during your free clarity call.
I focus on emotional availability and attachment styles (not just dating tactics). I teach Non-Violent Communication (most coaches don't). I've lived this transformation myself. And I work specifically with high-achievers who are stuck in patterns, not beginners who need basic dating advice.
I focus on emotional availability and attachment styles (not just dating tactics). I teach Non-Violent Communication (most coaches don't). I've lived this transformation myself. And I work specifically with high-achievers who are stuck in patterns, not beginners who need basic dating advice.
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